You are happy when ( or you are free when )

You can honestly say what you want
and make sure you live by that
You listen to what other people have to say
and try to don't judge
You take time to do something to others
for no special reason or occasion
and most importantly
don't expect anything back
You cry for someone you love
and with someone you love
You laugh about life
and about yourself without
caring what other ones
will say about that
You respect the elders
and also appreciate
what they can offer
and just so you know
it is priceless learning !
You exhale good energy
so good that disturbs
the ones that don't
and have the need
to put people down
to make themselves feel better
FORGIVE THEM
they don't know any better
YOU DO
...let it go...it is not worth it !
You love yourself first and for most
and treat others how you
wanna be treated...
You hold a kid and
give her favorite ice cream
because the smile you
get back could move
mountains ...
You don't wanna be
anybody else but yourself
because you love what
you see when you look
in the mirror...

TO BE CONTINUED....
but for now just
keep the positive attitude
and live like there is
no tomorrow but
remember to embrace the past
because made who you are today
...free and happy !

A few extra pounds

I woke up today thinking about
how we drive ourselves crazy
because of our weight...
(btw no I didn't feel this way today...lol)
You know what I am talking
about..those extra pounds !
I had to deal with this
ghost for many years
because I was a little
overweight growing up
so this blog is to remind me
and all my friends who
deal with this detail almost daily
First of all don't let your weight
define who you are
don't let those undesirable extra pounds
take your freedom away or
affect your confidence as a woman or man
Just make sure you are healthy
this is what matters ..at least should be your priority.
Nothing wrong in wanting to look your best
Just don't be a "slave" of your weight !
Don't allow that to stop from doing
anything you want
If anyone don't appreciate the person
you are because of those extra pounds
make sure you write them off your life
they were also a heavy "extra pounds"
that you shouldn't be carrying around
that you definitely don't need it
I know this is all easier said than done
but we own our lives so we have the power
to decide that we will be happy
with ourselves no matter what
again just make sure you are healthy
and if you still don't feel good
about those extra pounds
stop reading the blog with candies by your side
get up and do something about it
and never forget
YOU ARE MUCH MORE THAN
JUST A FEW EXTRA POUNDS !
Celebrate one more day and dance
It will make you feel lighter
and happier..always work for me.
See you on the dancefloor !

ALL ABOUT CONECTIONS

I have been reconnecting with people
that I met through this journey called life
through my trips around the globe and
oh man I cant say enough how blessed I feel
for meeting so much good people and I know
that I only did because I am a real person
that doesn't pretend to be who I am not.
God is giving me the opportunity to talk
to them again and I was blowing away from
so many kind words I got and also made me go
back in time , when I first met all of them.
I strong believe that more than knowledge
about any topics , life is about connections ...
That can take you really where you wanna be
as long as you are real and speak your heart
be honest with yourself and others ...always !
Don't try to please if that is not how you feel
be real and stay true to yourself and your beliefs...
You would be surprise how you can touch many lives
just by being yourself and they will touch yours too.
As I always say , the best investment in my opinion
are travels around the world...find out about other
cultures , find out about who you wanna be and
most importantly who you DON'T wanna be.
Remember to treat others as you would like
to be treated...beauty fades...integrity and
good connections NEVER!
Thank you all for making this time of my life so special !

In my words ( for the guys and their crazy exs)

I have been telling

to many guys the same thing

when they come and tell me

my ex was crazy...

that's when I say:

Didn't you guys figure it out

by now that

ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY

there is no such a thing

as a normal woman...

we are hormonals

we have babies

we deal with men's ego

we obsess about two extra pounds

when it is really half a pound

we bleed every month

we breastfeed babies and adults

so there you have it !

To leave your ex because she is crazy

is exchange six for half of dozen !

BUT remember we crazy women

have what makes you happy

and if we do it well our craziness

it is soooo worth it !

the truth is relationships

are hard to keep up for many years

it is hard work ,

devotion , understandind

comunication and

meeting half way sometimes.

Are you guys doing your part

or just playing victims ?

I use to say normal people

are not exciting people..

you know and I know

that the crazy ones are the ones

with crazy sex...THAT YOU LOVE IT !

so SHUT UP AND DANCE

This sunday make mad love

with your crazy woman

and call the ordinary one

to talk about the new car

that you want so bad...

that's just how it goes...

That's when I know I am in love ( part 1)

If I look at you and

think with myself

there is no other place

I rather be than

wherever you are

That's when I know

I am in love

When I take good

care of myself and

try to be the best

woman I can be

that's when I know

I am in love

When I dont

miss another touch

another kiss

another whisper

that's when I know

I am in love

When the day feels

like weeks , weeks

like months, months

like years

just because we are apart

that's when I know

I am in love

When I can't stop smiling

even when I sleep

that's when I know

I am in love and

be happy is all

I can think of !

The art of waiting

Lets talk about the art of waiting

of being patience

I admire people that

have the ability or

worked on themself

to get to the point

where they just wait

I get so stressed out

with things that I

think will happen

in the future

near or far future

it doesn't matter

I have been trying

to work on myself

and say to myself :

cross the bridge

when you get there...

easier said than done

to lots of people

so today my blog is

to tell you to take

a deep breath

twice and just

let it go things that

you can't control

I know it is hard work

but trust me it is a great

feeling when you do it...

life gets much more

pleasent and free

Sun is shining outside

and waiting for us

lets make things easier

for the sun and get out there

to celebrate one more day

living this complicated

simple life !

Just a thought

I woke up early and thought

what will I write about

easily came to my mind

one thing I wish we all

would do it today

and often...

Lets get out today and

take with us

some change handy

or even pieces of clothes

that we dont need no more

and I know you have it

or even better ,

some food or dog food

or if you have it in your

heart , take all of it

with you today BUT

make sure you give it away

TODAY ...

As we know , yesterday is gone

the future is unsure

so the time is NOW

Personally I describe

the moments I had

doing that as my

favorite moments...

There is nothing

as powerfull as helping

someone

in my book at least

it doesnt matter how

it can be as I said

or just with simple words...

we have been helped

more than enough

we have more than we need

TODAY my wish is that

we stand our hand

get a little out of

our busy schedule

to help somehow ...

you will be surprise

what that will do for

the rest of your day

Be a giver is much

more fun than be a taker !

Let me know how

did it go...

GIVE LOVE TODAY !

REMEMBER TO SHARE

EVERYDAY !

Have a wonderful

blessed day !