VOCE SE ACHA GOSTOSA ?

Vamos por partes...
O que é ser gostosa ??
É ter o corpo sem celulite ?

É ser magra ?

É ser bunduda ?
peituda?

É ter um rosto de lindo ?
 Não ter estrias ?
Ser negra ? loira ? morena ? ruiva?
É ouvir o personal te chamar de "delícia" ...
como se você fosse um milk shake de ovo maltine ?

 É ser boa de cama ? Beijar bem ?
                                         É só comprar eu grifes famosas ?

É causar tumulto na obra da esquina ?

SER GOSTOSA BY BB :
Se cuidar por que quem se cuida se ama!
É se aceitar ...
                             mais do que isso...
não ter medo de espelho...
                                                     ser sua própria fã...
não pelo que voce ve mas pelo que voce conhece ...
é ser divertida...
                                 ser original...
                                                             ser amiga...
assumir suas escolhas para que voce possa ser LIVRE...


                        E acima de tudo é...
                                                                SER VOCÊ ! 

Esse blog é pra que nós mulheres 
lembremos que há muito mais em nós mesmas
do que o corpo expõe...
E pra fechar...O HOMEM GOSTOSO...
É aquele que te ama como você é...
que faz você se sentir especial...
que é amigo...e alguém admirável !
Vamos combinar...não há nada mais 
gostoso do que um homem inteligente ,
que admiramos e que nos faça sentir
como a única...
Nosso ponto G é no ouvido...o deles infelizmente
ainda está muito ligado ao físico...
mas nada como a maturidade....
É NA MINHA OPINIÃO A FASE MAIS
ATRAENTE DE HOMENS E MULHERES ...

 por na maioria das vezes saberem o que querem
e mais importante...
O QUE NÃO VALE A PENA !

Saudade .......

Oi pai ,
voce tá bem , tudo azul ??
Tenho certeza que sim..
Imensidão...paz...plenitude...algodão....
Eu to aqui na mesma...aprendendo a não mudar
Aprendendo com o que me contraria
guardando e lembrando de tudo
tentando ser algo que voce adoraria
buscando respostas nos lugares mais seguros
vivendo uma paixão , trazendo pra luz
tudo que me lembra dor , escuridão
ouvindo o silencio que me tira a paz
clamar por musica , por rítmo ...por blues...
Ahh pai que falta voce me faz...
sensação de isopor...sem graça..sem gargalhadas...
sem gosto...tudo tão bege..tudo tão fosco...
a sua ausencia machuca e me obriga a crescer
ah pai como voce me inspira
em tua homenagem eu continuo a viver
e nessa minha passagem...
Eu tenho tanto pra te agradecer...tanto pra esclarecer
ser sua filha me faz especial...
me faz lembrar de SER ao invés de TER
e de não aceitar nada que não seja REAL
e assim sigo suas pegadas e chego na nossa morada
onde me ví desabrochar e me jogar no mundo
Hoje não quero nada que seja futil e sem emocão
busco sensações que estão lá no fundo...
quero que me toque o coração ,
me tire o chão...sem virar decepção
Te desobedecer me mostrou muito mais que eu imaginava
muito menos do que eu assimilava...
mas PAI por aqui tá tudo bem,
apenas um desejo de falar com voce
te contar a novidade...e no final dizer over and over
TO MORRENDO DE SAUDADE !

Esse é um momento mágico 
Já não sei como escrever
como decifrar como não chorar
eu sonhava que podia te encontrar
eu dormia e buscava teu olhar
eu permitia que voce tambem sonhasse
que também me desejasse
eu pedia uma direção
corrí e esperei
me joguei e acreditei
por que o amor só acontece
pra quem tem pra dar
O amor que eu pensava conhecer
caiu de moda
ficou pra trás
A vida começa agora

eu dancei a dança das boas almas
eu me ví numa lágrima sua
que não desceu...que eu sequei
me embreaguei...
EU DISSE SIM
EU DISSE EU QUERO
EU DIGO
EU TE AMO 
COMO EU NUNCA SONHEI
AMAR...NINGUém...
SÓ VC !

endless yours............

CADA UM DÁ O QUE TEM...

EU VOU COMEÇAR FALANDO ASSIM...
NADA ME ATINGE A NÃO SER DEUS 
PRECISA MUITO MAIS QUE UMA OFENSA
PRA ME DEIXAR TRISTE
ME SINTO EM CASA QUANDO ESCREVO
E QUANDO DANÇO
POIS SÃO DUAS COISAS QUE AMO FAZER
ADORO PODER COMPARTILHAR O QUE
VIVO E PENSO ATRAVÉS DESSE BLOG.
FICO MUITO FELIZ AO LER OS COMENTÁRIOS
SEJAM ELES QUAIS FOREM ...
PORÉM  SE VC NÃO GOSTA DE MIM 
POR QUE FAZ QUESTÃO DE LER O QUE ESCREVO?
SE TEM INVEJA EU POSSO TE DAR UMA DICA...
NÃO É OFENDENDO E SENDO COVARDE
QUE VC VAI TIRAR DE MIM O SEGREDO
DO MEU SUCESSO...
EU SÓ TENHO AMOR PRA DAR 
E VC ??
DESCULPA MAS NÃO CONSIGO SENTIR NADA MAIS QUE PENA DE ALGUÉM QUE GOSTA DE AGREDIR
PRA SE SENTIR BEM OU SE FAZER NOTAR
BUT AGAIN
WE ONLY CAN GIVE WHAT WE HAVE...
I AM SENDING SOME LIGHT ON YOUR WAY
GET OUT OF THE DARK
LOVE
BB

If you don't know me by now...

IF YOU DON'T KNOW ME BY NOW
Don't expect me to translate it for you
to unwrap the thoughts of my soul
to clean the dust of my window
that prevent me to see
the devil in you
it doesn't matter soon or
later I will figure it out

Don't expect me to open the door
and let you inside of me
where I keep all my secrets
and the madness of my rules
created to cause confusion
excitement and thirst of life

Don't expect me to kiss you at hello
if I think your lips can't scream my name
because I am the kind of woman
that met a lot of people on the road
Dropped most of them by the bridge
and keep only the meaningful spirits
that maybe never met me
but can read me with their hearts

So if you don't know me by now
just know that it is never too late
to be yourself and show that you care
and remember I tend to keep
people that come with something to add
people that I met yesterday
but had such impact on me that already
KNOW ME BY NOW !

So let's try again
nice to meet you ,
I am Barbara Becker...

Dating sites ( SECOND PART)

I heard some stories about women
that post pictures 10 years younger...
what are they thinking ???
Would they tape all over their bodies
for the first date...??
This is ridiculous !
Or even worst pictures 20 pounds lighter...
than what to do ??
I wonder what they say
when they get to face
the guy on their first date
"sorry I am kind of bloated
I am on my period " ?!
so last night I had 2 burgers
3 french fries and the whole ice cream
and I woke up like this...
you are bloated alright !
And how the guy suppose to react ?!
"Oh hun I understand ,
lets meet when the 20 pounds of blood
leaves your body " !!!
HELLOOOOOOO !!
We know men are visual so
if you don't feel good the way you look ,
either don't post picture
and be ready for not much action (emails)
or get a make over before doing it
but please NO old pictures !!
For the other hand, remember
not all guys like skinny ones
embrace who you are !!
As for the guys...
the ones who take good care of themselves
can be a great catch or a pain in the ass
I feel that the ones who are all cut and hot
TEND ( I said tend) to be very superficial
and I must say , it turns me off
and will not last more than 3 emails...
or two chats with me.
The regular looking guys
in my experience are more
in touch with things that really matters in life !
Beauty will fade for all of us !
We gotta have more than that !
we gotta be more than that !
Successful men that go for what they want
and make thing happen when they want
and who are not afraid of living to the fullest
THEY TURN ME ON !
I have a similar personality
risk taker , romantic and follow my intuition.
I would do anything or go anywhere
if I feel it can be THE ONE ...!
Today make sure you say what you want
and DO WHAT YOU SAY...
You might be surprise with the outcome...


TO BE CONTINUED...

Dating sites ( FIRST PART)

Oh man this is a fun subject
Let me start by saying ,
I am not implying that women
don't do things like the ones I will
talk about now...
But I am writing as a woman
so it will be my tips for the guys !
A lot of them are so clueless
It makes me wonder from which planet
they come from...
what's up with that attitude saying :
"Have no baggage please"
Are you a man over 30 ?
and you consider yourself
with no baggage ??
I find this very weird already !
At a certain point of our life
we carry that , sometimes big
sometimes medium and
some smart people small ones.
Let's face it , we all had some
drama in our life ,
it might be created by us ,
by others or both .
what we learn from it
makes difference on the size
of the baggage we carry .
Second thing people like to
post about themselves
I am 40 but look like 18 ...
( turns me off right away )
ARE YOU FREAKIN KIDDING ME ???
If I wanted an 18 I wouldn't be checking out your profile !!
Didn't you post any recent pictures
that should go without saying it
are you that immature and insecure ?
Talking about pictures....
Don't write me saying
I don't take much pictures
HELLO THIS IS A DATING SITE ONLINE
Get a camera a take some shots
if this is a lot for you to do
then don't waste my time
I am not interested !
Also you guys want us to have
recent pictures (fair enough)
but then you post pictures
of Paris , house , cars
WAKE UP I WILL NOT FUCK YOUR CAR!
I wanna see YOU !
A closer head shot no sunglasses,
body shot in jeans or something like that
no fuzzy ones from miles away...
For the ones without pictures alone ,
if you wanna post pictures around people
grab a taxi driver , a kid
family members or animals
but never ever other hot chics
(stripper looks)
also the ones that just came out of high school
Don't get me wrong I dig hot chics
but if I am looking for the man of my life
or a simple boyfriend to start with
I don't think you would be my pick
posting those kind of pictures !
I wonder what makes you
think that it will drag me to you
Would you appreciate
if it was the other way around ?
I didn't think so ! So get a gripe !
If you are ONLY looking for fun
than go for it ! Post your face between
some hot twins( if you know what I mean)
and gold diggers will fill your inbox !
Way to go playboy ! Enjoy it !
Now the "rich" ones that
can't write you an email and
only wink at you because
they are not members...
either you are not serious about it
or you are a broke ass so
spare me to read that you
are successful and own your home
I am not buying it !
Profiles very short
no more than 20 words
and very incomplete...
Again HELLO this is internet
as you , we wanna know as much
as we can about you
so we decide if there is a
potential date there or not !
Then I save the best for last
this is the worst for me
male , 52 years old searching
for female from 25 to 48...
for example...
So are you telling me that
you would date your daughter's
best friend...creepy !!!
You look desperate to me
and lost so I click
NEXT !
You all have a wonderful
time , good luck
and remember to be REAL
We appreciate that !

For the millionaires out there...

I got to meet some sucessfull people
we could call them millionaires
men looking for love
missing the woman of their dreams
the last one bla bla bla
but as I talked to them about it
I came to realize that
they are not ready because
they don't have the time
to have a real woman
Why do I know that ?
Because I am one of them
A real woman is demanding
of appreciation because
she brings everything or at least
a lot of things you have been
searching for...desiring...
A real woman will take care
of her man because
she loves him and he treats her
as he should
Guys keep it in mind
the more we feel appreciated
the hornier we get
at least works for me
is that so hard to get ?
I am not saying you shouldn't work
I am saying you should work TOO
Stop worrying about being right
focus in being happy
and I have two last questions
for the super busy guys
Does your work walk
around naked in the house
and get you off as much
as you both want?
Does your work
puts a smile on your face
sending you hot text messages
during the day
and naked pictures
to your cel ?
I didn't think so
So get your priorities
straight before you
come approach me

This is it...

I am not sure how to start this one
so many things in my mind
after watching this is it with Michael Jackson
I will not comment as a fan because
it would take pages of this blog
There are so many artist out there
that didn't accomplished a third
of what MJ did and
they walk and talk and act like
we own them something
like the whole world should
bend when facing them
Fuck that !
Michael was so talented
and as I call him the whole movie
a real monster,the man knows all
and made sure things came out the
way he planned for the concert
but what I was surprised about
was how humble he was
always using this words with the crew
WITH MUCH LOVE or L .O. V. E
whenever he wanted something to be done
or changed for his pieces .
I got to think that someone
like him really come in this earth
with a mission ...
an intense one and
maybe because of that , short...
He is in heaven where he belongs
and we people are in hell
because we dont take
care of the earth or
each other as we should.
MJ is in my opinion
the only artist that was for so long
without recording any new hits
that could pull off a concert like that
and make us dance and love
his old songs all over again
because they are like him
endless , timeless and
ahead of the time
just like he was always
watch this is it and
you will know why he is
the king of pop ...
Thank you MJ and RIP

thank you dad !

When everything seems cloudy
confuse, black , gray
I feel secure
I reach for light , peace , protection
I hear this voice that brings me
confort and wisdom
I sit and hear
Listen and learn..
It is not easy to change
not simple but seems like
because my changing
starts with your word
I listen and love you
my dad ,
my best friend !